Heart Happy (cathy_edgett) wrote,
Heart Happy
cathy_edgett

Grief -



We say "hold yourself together."   What is required of us to do that when the grief is deep?

Annie Dillard in The Maytrees:



    "If you were a prehistoric Aleut and your wife or husband died, your people braced your joints for grief. That is, they lashed hide bindings around your knees, ankles, elbows, shoulders, and hips.  You could still move, barely, as if swaddled.  Otherwise, the Aleuts said, in your grief you would go to pieces just as the skeleton would go to pieces.  You would fall apart."





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