I want to say to these people, "Time out!" "Sit in the corner and think about what you've done."
You have behaved like greedy, spoiled brats with no parents in the room, house, or country. You've been living Lord of the Flies, and yes, some help is required so we don't all tumble down, but to see each one of these people now grabbing for more pie makes me sick.
See why I'm needing to work so hard on the subject of equanimity. Back and forth I go. My poor blood pressure thinks a bigger moon has been installed next to the earth. The tides go high and low.