I am struggling again with the unpleasantness of the chemo. I really would just like to sit and cry, and sometimes I do, but there are so many hours, so many minutes when I feel like this, and so, I have so much time. I offer two poems that perhaps suggest what I am trying to balance as the tender lining of my stomach says, "No, I've had enough. Please stop."
Today I don’t see the mountain lion
only bones of deer
A rib cage fluent in two parts - a skull
as the space between stars
I see only footprints,
but, still, I ingest,
the exchange of energy,
the cache at rest.
I try to rest, and be,
and I try not to try.
I fear that I am boring,
If I let myself sit,
sluggish and unstimulated,
do I go deeper within,
like the mouse swallowed
by the snake,
where bells tap mindfully,
or do I stay on the surface,
an indulgent ball of blah,
unable to even roll,
I am so soft with flab.
Even a cushion needs some oomph to hold,
the body of the cat, to mold the bones,
to lift the ribs from splat.
I sit to calm,
inner bells pealing layers of me,
exfoliating as I lounge,
radiant in a bath
where kindness hums like eels,
electric on their path.
The following paragraph is from the book "Nine Gates: Entering the Mind of Poetry," by Jane Hirshfield.
"Difficulty itself may be a path toward concentration - expended effort weaves us into a task, and successful engagement, however laborious, becomes also a labor of love. The work of writing brings replenishment even to the writer dealing with painful subjects or working out formal problems, and there are times when suffering's only open path is through an immersion in what is. The eighteenth-century Urdu poet Ghalib described the principle this way: "For the raindrop, joy is in entering the river - / Unbearable pain becomes its own cure."
Today, I realize how much I need the darkness over the light right now. I am like the mouse, swallowed whole by the snake, and sitting there, dissolving in the process of digestion, and assimilated into a whole new way of time, for the snake and the mouse live very different lives as to their use of motion and food. I feel myself becoming the snake, content to loll on a rock in the sun, and to feel each muscle and rib stroke the earth as it moves.
I also find it interesting to note that anger changes our saliva. A snake only uses its venom to protect its life. Perhaps, we, too, should notice our secretions, and keep our saliva sweet, as much as possible. Let us nip in play, and only bite when we truly are threatened, which, in these times, may be somewhat rare. Assume people mean the best in what they say and do, and, then, what's thrown, may slide off,like icing on warm cake, and when, you do need to bite, then, do, but, only then.
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I just read Eats, Shoots & Leaves by Lynne Truss. It is a fun book, and well worth the punctuation ride.