Some words from the Tao Te Ching.
"The heavy is the root of the light .... The unmoved is the source of all movement." (Chapter 26)
To shrink something
You need to expand it first
To weaken something
You need to strengthen it first
To abolish something
You need to flourish it first
To take something
You need to give it first (Tao Te Ching, Chapter 36)