I feel that women get knocked down for exactly this reason, and we have to stand together to say yes, that what can be said to a man can be said to a woman and we do not need to baby our secretary of state, especially when in this case, as is usual for Ms. Rice, she is wrong.
Rice has a responsible position. She needs to act like it, and take the heat, or perhaps, she would prefer to be shopping, one of her favorite relaxing pastimes, undertaken while the children of others, die or are maimed, or are emotionally scarred forever.